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How to Find your G-Spot

Spicy4play — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 23:00:00 GMT

The G-spot is the common name for a spot on the front of the vaginal wall through which you can stimulate the urethral sponge, an area of spongy tissue surrounding the urethra, which can feel good when stimulated. All female-bodied people have a G-spot, but not all respond to G-spot stimulation in the same way. Locating and stimulating the G-spot can lead to orgasm and even ejaculation for many women.

Find it.

The G-spot is about two inches inside the vagina towards the belly, right behind the pubic bone. The G-spot corresponds to spongy tissue that is wrapped around the urethra. When women are aroused the tissue becomes thickened and can be felt through the vaginal wall. It creates an intense, distinctive sensation when stimulated. For some women this feeling is similar to the sensation of needing to urinate. And for some, stimulation of the G-spot can make them ejaculate.

Turn yourself on. The first step is to get turned on. During arousal, the spongy tissue swells with fluid. When you aren't turned on, the wall of the vagina feels fairly similar all the way around, but when you get aroused the G-spot becomes more firm with blood and other fluids. Grab a vibrator, your favorite sexy movie, or indulge in a hot fantasy.

Add a finger or toy. Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly. Your fingers may be too short, in which case, try a curved finger toy. The Ruby Wrap Wand, and the Butterfly Kiss are designed for women to reach their own G-spots. The Dinky Digger II and Clitapatra Twister are our most popular vibrating toy for G-spot stimulation.

Try a Topical to help Sensitize and increase sensation. Like DISCOVER G-Spot Stimulating Gel
This unique formula increases the size and the sensitivity of the G-Spot making it easy to find. or

Firm strokes. You'll know when you hit the G-spot by the distinctive sensation it creates. Remember, you aren't feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the urethral sponge is behind it, so you'll need to press. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or crinkly; noticeably different than the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a "come hither" way). Try various degrees of pressure and a range of motions.

Experiment. There is no single "right way" to jazz the G. The size and sensitivity of the G-spot varies a lot. You'll just have to experiment. Some like rhythmic pressure on the G-spot, others like the swooping motion of fingers or a twisting dildo like the Butterfly G Bliss. Others really like to have their clits stimulated at the same time their G-spot is stroked. A partner's fingers stroking the G-spot during cunnilingus can feel simply divine.

Ejaculate (or not)! Pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. This fluid is different from urine and similar to men's prostatic fluid. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won't worry about peeing. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be copious. Objects in the vagina may block the uretha, thus preventing ejaculation. Some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While not every woman ejaculates, female ejaculation is not uncommon, and it is considered a normal aspect of female sexual response.

Partners and sexual positions. During partner sex there are some sex positions that are more conducive for hitting the G than others. Think geometry. Unless your partner has a curved dildo or penis, it's the cervix, not the G-spot that will most likely be stimulated in the standard missionary pose. Doggy style, or the receptive partner receiving a G-Spot Dildo or penis from behind, puts the G-spot in the bullseye a bit better. You can lift your upper body by supporting your hands against a wall or bedstand and create a more angled space in the vagina. Many women find that if they are on top, they can control penetration for better G-spot stimulation.

G-spot response varies dramatically: remember there's no one "right way to experience pleasure." Rather than turning your explorations into a task or new goal you must achieve, try to approach it with a sense of fun and enjoy all the sensations along the way. Have a Spicy DAy!!

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How to on Anal Sex and play

Spicy4play — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:00:00 GMT

A Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex

Butt Sex Gets a Bum Rap

We live in a very butt phobic culture. Look at our language: rude, inconsiderate people are "assholes" and uptight stress cases are "tight asses." While it's true that we carry a phenomenal amount of our stress in our assholes, there's tremendous pleasure to be experienced from the concentration of nerve endings clustered in and around the anus.

So why are back door pleasures so taboo? Many people have a mordant fear of coming into contact with bits of fecal matter, and homophobic attitudes about anal sex create the fallacious notion that only “only gay men do that.” Poor butts, so many nerve endings just aching to be stimulated, and so much stigma to overcome!

Why Try Anal Sex?

Although it can be fun to play with taboos, the truth is all kinds of people from all different sexual backgrounds get into the joys of butt love. And for good reason: it feels good. The anus and the rectum are sensitive areas. There are a wealth of muscles and nerve endings around the anus and the right kind of touch can feel fantastic. All men have prostate glands that can be reached through the rectum. Many men have orgasms just from pressure on the prostate. Women's G-spots are easily stimulated indirectly through anal play as well.

This how-to deals primarily with anal masturbation. It’s nice to experiment alone first so you can control the pace of your explorations. However, you are most welcome to try this with a partner as well, just go slowly and communicate your desires and reactions to your partner. Anal play should not hurt. If it hurts, that's your body telling you to back off. Remember this butt mantra: "relaxation, lubrication, communication" and you should be happily enjoying butt sex in no time.

Get Going!

Clean up. If you’re worried about coming into contact with feces, go to the bathroom to clear out your bowels. You can also shower first, or do your experimenting in the shower, or wear a latex glove with lube on it during anal play.
Exercise. Try some anally focused exercises, clenching and unclenching your sphincter muscles. Anal kegels can be done in sets of 12; try doing a fast set and a slow set. During the slow set, exhale on the relaxation portion of the exercise.
Add lube to your finger and your anus. The tissue of the rectum is sensitive, it doesn't self-lubricate as does the vagina, and it can suffer little micro tears and abrasions quite easily. So be gentle when you explore, and use lots and lots of lubricant—try Slippery Stuff or Maximus. These thicker lubes are great for anal play because the don’t evaporate as quickly.
Get to know your butt. Start by feeling around the outside of the hole. There are two sphincters of the anus, the outer one, which creates the pucker that you can see, and the inner sphincter that you can feel a short ways up if you insert your finger in your anus.
Go inside. If you’re playing in the shower, ease a fingertip just inside your ass. If you’re lying on your back or side, insert a well-lubed finger. If you meet resistance, push out as if you had to go to the bathroom and push your finger in at the same time.
Experiment. Do some clenches and releases while touching yourself so that you can feel the changes in yoru asshole. Try rubbing in tiny, concentric, circles around the rim of your asshole. Notice whether there are any particularly sensitive spots. Don’t feel you have to go very far inside. Just explore and enjoy yourself.

Add Toys

Sex toys can be a great way to learn how to have anal sex, either through anal masturbation or anal intercourse with a partner. These products can help you get started:

Butt plugs. Butt plugs (also called anal plugs) are typically diamond-shaped with a thin neck and a flared base, which prevents them from slipping into the rectum. The bulge in the middle helps the plug stay in place, and for male bodied people it will stimulate the prostate. Check out the Ryder or the Little Flirts for two of our most popular butt plugs.
Anal beads. Anal beads cause the sphincter muscles to contract, which can send many people into orgasm. Beads come in all sizes and materials, and are a series of beads knotted into place along a string with a ring on the end. Check out our popular anal beads.

Anal dildos. A thin dildo is good to start with, but you can use a dildo of any size (with our without a harness)for anal sex (anal intercourse) with a partner, or for masturbation. The small Silk is a nice beginner’s size, while the Buzz 1 is great if you want to combine vibrations with penetration.

Just to Laugh

Spicy4play — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 12:31:00 GMT

A woman walked into the kitchen to find her husband stalking a round with a fly swatter.

"What are you doing?" she asked.

"Hunting flies," He responded.

"Oh, killing any?" She asked.

"Yep, three males, two females," he replied.

Intrigued, she asked, How can you tell?

He responded, "Three were on a beer can, two were on the phone."

TOP TEN THINGS ONLY a WOMAN UNDERSTANDS

10. Cats' facial expressions.
9. The need for the same style of shoes in different colors.
8. Why bean sprouts aren't just weeds.
7. Fat clothes.
6. Taking a car trip without trying to beat your best time.
5. The difference between beige, ecru, cream, off-white, and eggshell.
4. Cutting your bangs to make them grow.
3. Eyelash curlers.
2. The inaccuracy of every bathroom scale ever made.

AND, the Number One, Number One thing only a woman understands:

1. OTHER WOMEN

New Medications for Women

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P e p t o b i m b o
Liquid silicone for single women. Two full cups swallowed before an evening out increases breast size, decreases intelligence, and improves flirting.

D u m e r o l
When taken with Peptobimbo, can cause dangerously low I.Q., causing enjoyment of country western music.

F l i p i t o r
Increases life expectancy of commuters by controlling road rage and the urge to flip off other drivers.

A n t i b o y o t i c s
When administered to teenage girls, is highly effective in improving grades, freeing up phone lines, and reducing money spent on make-up.

M e n i c i l l i n
Potent anti boyotic for older women. Increases resistance to such lines as, "You make me want to be a better person ... can we get naked now?"

B u y a g r a
Injectable stimulant taken prior to shopping. Increases potency and duration of spending spree.

J a c k A s s p i r i n
Relieves headache caused by a man who can't remember your anniversary or phone number.

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A spray carried in a purse or wallet to be used on anyone too eager to share their life stories with total strangers.

And the best:

D a m i t o l
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Reasons Why Cookie Dough Is Better Than A Penis

Spicy4play — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 12:20:00 GMT

Reasons Why Cookie Dough Is Better Than A Penis

1. It's enjoyable hard or soft.

2. It makes a mess, too --- but it tastes better.

3. It doesn't mind if you take your anger out on it.

4. You always want to swallow.

5. It won't complain if you share it with friends.

6. It's "quick and convenient".

7. You can enjoy it more than once.

8. It comes already protectively wrapped.

9. You can make it as large as you want.

10. If you don't finish it, you can save it for later.

11. It's easier to get the kind you want.

12. You can comparison-shop.

13. You know what the extra weight is from.

14. You can put it away when you've had enough.

15. You know yours has never been eaten before.

16. It won't complain if you chew on it.

17. It comes chocolate flavored.

18. You always know when to get rid of it.

19. You can return it --- satisfaction is guaranteed.

20. It's always ready to go.

21. You won't get arrested if you eat it in public.

22. You don't have to change the sheets if you eat it in bed.

23. It won't wake you up because it's hard.

24. It won't get jealous if you pick up another one.

25. You can tell your friends how much you've eaten without sounding like you're bragging.

26. It is very pliable.

27. It's easy to pick up.

28. It never has an insecurity problem with its size.

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Ways to Use a Rabbit Vibrator

Spicy4play — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 22:30:00 GMT

Ways to Use a Rabbit Vibrator

Ask any adult toy lover what sex toy is the most popular with women and she would definitely say that this is a rabbit vibrator. Indeed, popularity of rabbit vibrator is incredibly great. What makes this sex toy so popular?

First of all it is multifunctional. Unlike most other sex toys a rabbit vibrator is designed for simultaneous stimulation of two or even three key female erogenous zones: the clitoris, the vaginal opening and the G-spot.

Your choices are endless

Just have a glance of a rabbit vibrator and you will understand that this is a unique sex toy. The "ears" attached to the base of the shaft are intended to provide you with greatly enjoyable clitoral stimulation.

The rotating shaft of this sex toy stimulates the G-spot which is known as one of the main female erogenous zones.

The hollow sphere filled with small beads will stimulate your vagina and anus in the most pleasurable way.

As you see, the rabbit vibrator, being a perfect sex toy can give you a great deal of erotic enjoyment by making you experience a whole variety of sensations. The suggestions given below will help you to get maximum advantage of this cute sex toy.

Good ways to use a rabbit vibrator

1. Delay your enjoyment. Well, it has been said above that a rabbit vibrator can give you enormous pleasure by stimulating all your main erogenous zones at the same time. But what about varying your play?

Try the following: first of all turn off the shaft and leave the clitoral stimulator turned on. Use the shaft as a handle and place the "ears" over your clitoris and enjoy clitoral stimulation. As soon as you feel you are about to orgasm stop and turn on the shaft. Insert it in the vagina and get the strongest orgasm you have ever had! Leave the clitoral stimulator turned on and you will have a chance to get dual orgasm : g-spot orgasm and anal orgasm.

2. Stimulate nipples and anus. Do not think that a rabbit vibrator is designed only for genital stimulation. Your other erogenous zones do need proper stimulation and a rabbit vibrator really can give them enjoyment. Do you want to use your sex toy anally? Then simply insert it shaft into the anus and glide the "ears" over labia for additional stimulation. But do not insert the shaft in the vagina after that! You risk to get an infection. Always wash the vibrator before placing it into the vagina or around the vaginal opening!

Actually, there is one more way out. Simply place a condom over your rabbit vibrator before inserting it in the anus in order to take it off when you finished. Models that include pearls or bead band will enhance anal stimulation.

3. Enjoy it deeper. Do you love deep penetration? You can enjoy it! Get on your fours and straddle your rabbit vibrator - this position will allow you to reach underneath and play and move the shaft. Or lay on your back with your feet up on the wall. This position as well provides deeper insertion.

4. Press it. One more cute way to use a rabbit vibrator. Insert the shaft in the vagina and let the clitoral stimulator please your clitoris. Put your legs together and squeeze the shaft with your PC muscles. This position will allow you to enjoy your rabbit vibrator hands free. That's amazing!

Men also use rabbit vibrators!

Yeah, though rabbit vibrator is considered to be a purely female sex toy, men do love using rabbit vibrators. Try using a rabbit vibrator on your partner by placing the clitoral stimulator on such sensitive areas as nipples, anus and perineum. As well men love using a rabbit vibrator anally for prostate massage or to stimulate the testicles.

Two tips

1. Use lubricants. Do use a water-based lubricant if you wish to make your play maximum enjoyable. Lubricate both the shaft and the "ears" and you will realize that your nerve endings have become especially sensitive due to reduced friction and enhanced vibration.

2. Care for your rabbit vibrator properly. Keep it clean in order to prevent infections and prolong the lifespan of your sex toy. For more information on vibrators care and cleaning see our Sex Toys Guide.

Your choices are endless

Rabbit Vibrators: Dual pleasure with twin ears multi clitoral stimulation sex toy vibrators Like Platinum Jack Rabbit or The 4play

Butterfly Vibrators: Dual pleasure fluttering wings and dual clitoral stimulation sex toy vibrators Like The Silicone Beaded Butterfly or The Butterfly Kiss

Beaver Vibrators: Dual action beaver nose clitoral stimulation sex toy vibrators. Like The Deluxe Wall Banger or the Eager Beaver.

Dolphin Vibrators: Dual stimulation dolphin beak clitoral stimulation sex toy vibrators. Like Diamond Dolphin or The Dreamy Dolphin Vibrator

Other Dual Vibrators: Dual stimulation Vibrators with clitoral stimulation and penetration in mind. Like The

7-Function Insatiable Rose , Magic Spot Vibe or the Flexi Tongue

Have A Spicy DAy!

Cleaning Your Sex Toys

Spicy4play — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 21:00:00 GMT

Cleaning and Taking care of Your Sex Toys
First, it is important to understand that uncleaned toys can transmit STD's and viruses and if you have any kind of vaginatis or other medical problem you can end up re-infecting yourself if you do not keep anything that comes in contact with your body absolutely clean and germ free. Toys and other aids will last a lot longer if they are maintained properly. Here are some things you need to know about their care and maintenance:

After Purchase

Anything you purchase should first be inspected to make sure there are no rough edges. This is especially true of anything that is plastic. If you find a rough seam it can easily be smoothed down with a nail file. If there are instructions, make sure you read the manufacturers directions and any tips they have about care and storage. If the product is rubber you will probably want to let it air out so that any of the plastic odors will dissipate. Always clean anything new before you use the product. How you clean it will depend on the materials that the product is manufactured from. Read our handy hints below.

For All Toy Usage

If you are going to share toys or use the same toy vaginally and anally, the most reliable way to prevent the spread of any disease is to use a condom. Using a condom prevents having to interrupt to wash up and also will substantially reduce the risk of transmission. You can find all types, styles and brands of condoms. Even if you are using a condom on the toy make sure that you clean it after every use. Most toys and aids feel better when used with a lubricant - but not all lubricants are the same and some can actually cause harm - read "All Descriptions On Lubes" water-based lubricants are best with most toys.

Cleaning Solutions

Antibacterial soap and warm water is a must for cleaning toys. Any toy has come in contact with blood, should be washed in soap and water and then soaked in a solution of one part household bleach to nine parts water. Remember to rinse well in clear water after to remove any of the cleaning residue. There are also several commercial adult toy cleaning solutions that can be purchased that have been specially formulated to kill all bacteria and germs but preserve the life of the toys.

Cyberskin

Cyberskin is extremely sensitive and should be cleaned following use with warm water and stored in a clean dry place. Be sure to read the manufacturers instruction on how to care for these products.
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Silicone

Silicone is a very durable material so it can be easily cleaned with soap and water, boiling to disinfect will not harm it and it can even be placed on the top rack of the dishwasher. Do make sure that the entire product is silicone and that it does not have any plastic parts. Anything that is on the device that is not silicone could be damaged and in this particular case a cleaning with soap and water will be all that you can do. Even though silicone is very durable it can crack and a crack can lead to a tear, so be careful with nails and teeth when you are handling silicone. (Do not use silicone lube with these toys! it will cause it to break down and destroy your toy)
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Storage

No matter what the material might be, leather, rubber, silicone, etc., moisture, direct sunlight or excessive heat will cause damage. Any product that has a battery should have the battery removed between usage to keep them from corroding and also from accidentally turning on and running down the batteries.
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Latex

It is important to know that latex can be severely damaged by anything that is oil or petroleum based. Latex is primarily used in condoms and dental dams. Use only water-based products with latex (find latex lubricants here), store anything latex away from heat or direct sunlight and discard latex products after use.
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Leather

Leather is a very difficult material to keep clean because of all the irregularities of the material. To clean leather, first wash the edges with a strong foaming cleaner and a brush, then wipe down all of the surfaces with hydrogen peroxide and allow to dry. Follow this by using saddle soap for an additional cleaning. The last process is using a leather conditioner to restore it back to its natural finish. The leather conditioner is an absolute must because without it the leather will begin to dry out and crack. This process does not work on suede.
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Rubber Dildos, Plugs & Etc.

Rubber is a very porous material, so as previously discussed, the easiest way to keep them clean is with a condom. Clean all rubber products after use with soap and warm water. They need to also be rinsed well as the left over soap residue can cause damage to the rubber and also irritate the skin.
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Vibrators

There are two types of vibrators - waterproof and non-waterproof.
If you own the waterproof variety then the vibrator can easily be cleaned with soap and warm water. If the vibrator is not waterproof then you have to be very careful not to get water in or around the motor or the batteries. Don't ever immerse a non-waterproof vibrator in water. If it is the hard plastic model, soak a cotton ball in rubbing alcohol to clean and then let it dry and air out. Never use a non-waterproof vibrator under water and don't take an electric vibrator near the bathtub or any other body of water. It can cause electric shock just like any other electrical appliance!
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Toys should be changed out every six-nine months for secure purposes.
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Valentines Day Top 10 Selling Romance Items

Spicy4play — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 19:30:00 GMT

Top 10 Selling Sex Toys

10. Jessica Drake™ - Triple Teaser
9. Dinky Digger II
8. Tongue Dinger Vibe
7. Lucid Dreams #54
6. Screaming O Wow Ring or The Bong Screaming O Stimulator Ring
5. Fukuoku Five Finger Massage Glove
4. Silicone Beaded Butterfly Dual Vibe
3. Burning Angel 7x Bullet
2. Frisky Fingers Silicone Sleeve
1. Clitpatra Royalty Vibe

Top 10 Selling Lingerie Sets

10. Peek A Boo Panty
9. Lace Bed Jacket Set
8. Semi Sheer Sleepwear Babydoll Set
7. Patent Leather 3pc Set.
6. "OOH LA LA" French Maid or Large Fishnet Dress Set
5. Coquette Signature Chemise Set.
4. Halter Fishnet Teddy
3. Sexy Chemise Set.
2. Peek a Boo Baby Doll Set
1. China Doll Crotchless Panty

Top 10 Selling Novelties

10. Love Cuffs
9. Premium Blindfold
8. Black Rubber Whip or Black Spade Short Crop
7. Body Dew Spray 4oz
6. Wet Inttimo Massage Oil
5. Wet Naturals Lube
4. Silky Sheets Pheromone Spray
3. Pheromone Candles
2. Delux Massage Mitt
1. Coochy Shave Cream

Top Selling Romance Kits

5. Screaming Ovation Intimacy Kit
4. Bag Of Love Gift Set
3. Royal Rabbit Kit
2. Never Ending Honeymoon Kit
1. 7-Piece Fantasy Restraint Kit & Our First Bondage Fantasy Romance Gift Set

Top Selling Sexual Enhancements

4Women
3. Vigel Clitoral Stimulating Arousal Gel
2. Liquid "V"
1. Climaxa Stimulating Gel .5 oz Jar

4Men
3. Yohimbe Erection Lotion 4 oz.
2. SIZE RX 4.5 OZ
1. Seminex 10 Day Supply

Unisex
1. PurEcstasy Flavored Stimulating Gel 1oz

All of these items make really great gifts for any occasion or for an added surprise to any night!!
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BDSM Glossary of Terms

Spicy4play — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 17:20:00 GMT

Spicy4play.com BDSM Glossary Terms

We have had many people ask us to explain what certain BDSM words mean, so here goes:

BDSM Glossary

ACOMOCLITIC — a preference for totally shaved genitals.

ACUCULLOPHILIA — sexual attraction to circumcised men.

ADULT BABIES — age play where the submissive is the baby.

ALGOPHILIA — sexual arousal derived from experiencing pain.

ALTOCALCIPHILIA — high-heel shoe fetish.

BDSM — acronym for bondage, domination/submission/sadism & masochism.

BALL GAG — a device with a rubber ball and straps used to stifle screams.

BALL STRETCHING — stretching the scrotum using weights so that it hangs lower.

BASTINADO — foot torture using the soles of the feet.

CAT O' NINE TAILS — a whip containing nine strands.

CHASTITY BELT — a device used to keep the submissive chaste when the dominant is away.

COCA-COLA SUBMISSIVE — a submissive who only obeys easy commands, or when he/she                                                  feels like it.

DM — dungeon monitor: oversees a BDSM party to make sure house rules are followed.

D/S — popular abbreviation for a dominant/submissive relationship.

DADDY — a role taken on in age play.

DOG TRAINING — role-playing that involves treating the bottom like a dog.

DOMME — a female dominatrix.

DUNGEON — a theatrical term for a bondage playroom.

EDGEPLAY — a practitioner of the more extreme BDSM elements, including fisting,                                     asphyxia, knife play, etc.

EMASCULATION — when a dominant restricts certain actions typical of male behavior.

EXTREME RESTRAINTS — a very confining or restrictive bondage device.

FELCHING — drinking semen out of another's orifice.

FEMDOM — a female dominant.

FLAGELLATION — a BDSM related whipping to induce sexual arousal.

FLOGGER — a multi-tailed leather whip.

HANKY CODE — old-guard leather community's color code of sexual preference.

HOBBLE SKIRT — a narrow skirt that restricts the wearer's ability to walk.

IMMOBILIZATION — extreme form a bondage that totally restricts movement.

INFANTILISM — role-playing as a young child.

M/S — master/slave.

MALACCA — a thick cane.

MANACLE — metal restraints.

MARTINET — small flogger.

MASOCHIST — one who derives pleasure from pain.

MERINTHOPHILIA — sexual arousal from bondage.

MUMMIFICATION — a unique kind of bondage in which the entire body is wrapped tightly                                        in film (plastic wrap).

OTK — over-the-knee spanking.

PADDLE — a flat instrument used for spanking.

PAIN SLUT — popular expression for a submissive who loves pain.

PANSEXUALITY — BDSM activities encompassing all sexualities.

PONY PLAY — role-playing where the submissive takes on the role of a pony.

POWER EXCHANGE — dynamic whereby the dominant is consensually given power over                                                  the submissive, whether for just the scene or for a relationship.

QUIRT — a type of buggy whip.

RPG — role-playing games.

RACK — bondage device modeled after a torture device used in the Inquisition.

S&M — sadism and masochism. One enjoys administering pain, the other enjoys receiving it.

SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL — a slogan in the BDSM community.

SAFE WORD — a word or phrase a submissive uses to stop the scene or action.

TPE — Total Power Exchange — a term used for 24/7 master/slave relationship.

WATTENBURG WHEEL — a medical pinwheel commonly used in BDSM play.

WHIPPING POST — a post that a submissive is chained to in order to receive their lashings.
Hope it helps.
Have A Spicy Day!

Myths about Vibrators

Spicy4play — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 21:24:00 GMT

SPICY4PLAY.COM MYTHS ABOUT VIBRATORS

Vibrators are used only by women

Women do use vibrators more often than men, but this may be a result of common believes. Men may use vibrators and get as much pleasure as women do. A man can experiment with a cock ring, vibe, stroking his nipples, penis or inserting it anally for prostate massage. Besides, there are particular vibrators meant for men use, so you won't need to take your girlfriends or wife's vibe. Men don't need to miss plenty of possibilities to widen his sex experience.

Vibrator and dildos are the same things

When one thinks of a vibrator, the first thing that comes to his or her mind is a phallus image. In fact a vibrator doesn't need to be an insertion toy. Phallic vibrator is one of the many types of vibrating toys. Vibrating eggs, balls, lipsticks, dolphins, butterflies, nice animal-shaped vibes are just few to mention. Some people even never use vibrators internally and say that vibration inside a vagina or anus doesn't fit their desires at all. Dildos are non vibrating instruments used for penetration available in 2 to 18 inches made from jelly, silicone or realistic cyber material to name a few and dongs are a penetrating instrument with a variable vibrating option also available in 5 to 12 inches in a wide variety of materials.

Vibrators are not safe

If you use your vibrator according to care and cleaning instructions, this thought may not even occur in your head. Unless you want to risk you life and soak a plug in the water prior to putting it in the socket and test the seconds you are going to survive, safety shouldn't bother you.

Vibrators are for masturbation only

In spite of this common misconception, many people experiment with vibrators not only being alone, but with their partner as well. Couples are excited about adding more sensation to their sexual encounters in life. They are open and comfortable to use a sex toy for enhancing pleasure and mutual satisfaction.

Using a vibrator means that your partner is dissatisfied with you

Well, if you have any doubts about your partner's attitude, it would be better to talk everything out and take all your fears away. But more often reasons, that make your partner buy a vibe, does not the concern of dissatisfaction. These sexual devices are very helpful for a change. They make your sexual experience more colorful, enhanced and unforgettable.

Vibrator will replace a partner

Vibrator is a really skillful device, which will never say he is tired or is not in the mood to have sex. But don't you think that vibrator can not give warmth and intimate feelings, which only a person can. No need to engage in competition with your partner's vibrator, it's all up to you to make your intimate moments exceptional and pleasurable.

*Vibrators can make one insensitive

There is no prove, that vibrator can make a person less sensitive or can result in clitoral or vaginal sensitivity loss. Actually, vibes help many women achieve climax and enhance their orgasm to be more colorful, intense and exciting, and some are recommended for "health" purposes.

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Spicy4play Top List

Spicy4play — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 05:00:00 GMT

Spicy4play.com Here it is Our top 10 List!!!

Top 10 Novelty Items:

10. Private Dancer Pole Kit Silver
9. Beginners wand
8. Angel 7x Bullet (Black)
7. Vibro Play Purple
6. Elite 5x Vibro Ring Tickler
5. Lucid Dreams #32 Red W/P Squirmy
4. Lucid Dreams #42 (Fuchsia)
3. The Bong O Vibrating Cock Ring
2. Wild Sex Bondage Kit
1. Silicone Beaded Butterfly Vibe

Top 10 Lingerie Items:

10. Peek-a-boo Crotchless Panty with Back Bow
9. "Ooh La La" Maid
8. Red Lace teddy
7. Sexy Pinned up Leather teddy
6. Coquette Fishnet Dress or Sheer Stretch Lace babydoll
5. Satin Dream Babydoll Set
4. Coquette Camy Set
3. "Gypsy Dancer"
2. Lace Nightdress
1. Coquette Signature chemise

Top 10 Sex Kits:

10. Screaming Ovation Intimacy Kit
9. Our First Bondage Kit
8. Honeymoon Fantasy Kit
7. White Wedding Kit
6. Fetish Slave Kit
5. Triple Love or Chocolate Pleasures Treasure Kit.
4. Orgasmic Foreplay Kit 2
3. Royal Rabbit Kit
2. Bag Of Love
1. 7 pc Fantasy Restraint Kit

Top 10 Accessories:

10. Fleur D' Amor Foreplay Game
9. Pulsa Bath Ball or Lips Bath Sponge
8. Happy Heart Massager or Dual Pleasure Mitt
7. Silky Sheets
6. Tickle N Taste
5. Liquid "V" For Women or Cleopatras Secret Cream
4. Screaming O WOW Ring
3. Nipple Nibblers Cream
2. Wet Comfort Silicone Lube
1. Senso Extension Sleeve

Top Selling Enhancement products!

1. Vigel For Women
1. Semenex For Men

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A Beginner’s Guide to Vibrators

Spicy4play — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 02:01:00 GMT

Spicy4play.com Beginners Guide to Vibrators

The bedside companions of legions for women, Vibrators are well-loved because they can help you learn to orgasm, get you off more quickly, or help you climax during partner sex.

Enjoy this in depth beginner's guide to the world of vibes!

Basic Vibrators

Now In general, vibrators are very different from dildos. Vibrators vibrate of course, while most dildos don’t vibrate only Dongs do. And while it isn't always apparent from the look of them, most vibrators are built for external use as clitoral stimulators, while dildos are penetrative toys. If you're new to vibrators, experiment first using them on your clit, to see how they feel. Once you've achieved an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, or you want to mix up the sensations and consider diving in deeper!

A first-time vibe should be simple to use and within your budget. It is a good idea to try out a variable speed toy. Toys with multiple speeds allow you to sample a variety of sensations, which can help you determine whether you like subtle vibrations or something with a hardy rumble.

Clit Vibes

If you like the feel of your hand, but want to add an extra oomph, try a fingertip vibrator or the Finger Fun.

If you want a clit vibrator that doesn't look like a vibrator, the Laya Spot is a great beginner vibe with lots of exciting features. It’s ergonomic, waterproof, made of easy-to-clean silicone, and features variable speeds as well as three pulsating functions or Try the water whirl

If you want a classic inexpensive vibe that can be used either clitorally or vaginally, try the Straight Vibes. They come in so many different styles and colors you can find one to match your purse or your eye color. Try a waterproof version like the Climax Gems Jade Missile or Jenna's Slim Shooter.

For a smaller, on-the-go clit vibe, try bullet- or egg-shaped vibrators. A smaller vibrator connected to a battery pack by a cord. The Silver Bullet and the Lady Finger Clit Cuddler are popular choices.

For a vibe that will rock your clit till it comes, the Hitachi boasts the most power and is beloved by women around the globe. Close on its heels is the Wanachi and the Miracle Massager, both smaller than the Hitachi, but delivering intense, focused vibrations to your clit. all of these toys are electric vibes.

G-Spot Vibes

If you’re looking for a vibrator that you can use either on your clit or your G-spot, consider the Lucid Dreams Vibe.. While it’s made specifically for G-Spot stimulation (see Unlocking the secrets of the G-Spot or The G-Spot Book for more information), it also has a variable speed vibrator in the tip that’s great for clitoral stimulation. If you want the same effect but in quality silicone, check out Dinky Digger II or the Delight.

If you want a toy that you will vibrate your clit and vagina at the same time, consider the ever-popular Waterproof Jack Rabbit, or one of its cousins. With a rotating shaft for penetration and a vibrating clit attachment, many consider this the best of all possible worlds.

Exploration

Sometimes a little trial and error is required before you find your ideal vibe. Don’t lose hope if you tried one vibrator that didn’t “work” for you. Everyone has different preferences in terms of sex toy style as well as stimulation, which means your best friend’s favorite vibrator might not be the perfect fit for you.

From the subtle vibrations of the Fukuoku Massage Glove to the deep rumble of the Magic Wand, there’s a huge variety of sensations to explore. Some folks react strongly to different qualities of vibration.

You can make an educated guess about the type of vibration you might enjoy by thinking about the way you masturbate. If you prefer a gentle touch, try the Retractable Heart Massager. If you like a lot of direct clitoral stimulation, try one of the electric vibrators like the Miracle wand.

No matter which vibrator you try first, your experience will help you collect information about the kind of toys you might like in the future.

Toys for Partners

It can be confusing trying to pick out a first-time toy for yourself, much less someone else! If your partner has never used a vibrator, consider the ones recommended in the “Basic Vibrators” section above.

If you’re looking for a toy that you can enjoy together, first consider that toys for partner sex are only limited by your comfort level and imagination. Any toy that’s great for masturbation can also be a success in partner sex.

That said, some vibrators are especially fun to combine with partner sex. Vibrating cock rings slip over a penis or dildo, and if aligned properly, can provide gentle clitoral stimulation to one partner during intercourse. Take a look at the Soft Touch Cyber Ring or Screaming O WOW Ring

Wearable vibrators, like the Remote Butterfly, Venus, Micro Dolphin, Passion wings are strapped on directly over the clit. The remote feature allows for extra surprises if the partner not wearing the toy is in charge of the remote control.

Be sure to check out our wide selection of toys!
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Fun Factory Dinky Digger II

Spicy4play — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 13:48:00 GMT

Spicy4play.com Dinky Digger Fun Factory Vibe

We absolutely love this vibe. I own him in green and originally picked this little guy up simply for curiosity's sake. I mean look at him, he's looks so funny.

Once I got to use it he became one of my main toys. You can use him alone, which is great because his little nose can do wonders for your g-spot, or you can use him with that special someone. That nose doubles as an excellent clitoral stimulator. It even has a little dial on it so you can dial up or down the vibrations to exactly where you need them to be. The absolute best thing about him is that he's waterproof. Can you imagine what this little Digger can get into in a hot relaxing bath? He's just awesome!

The only problem I found with him is that the batteries aren't always that easy to put in. You have to squeeze really hard and pull at the same time. Which isn't always that simple for me. But that's the only issue I have with this vibe. Fun Factory really knocked this one out of the park.

Funny Condom Slogans

Spicy4play — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 21:45:00 GMT

Spicy4play.com Funny Jokes

I came across these in my surfing and could not stop laughing... Hope you enjoy them too.

Funny Condom Slogans...

1. Cover your stump before you hump
2. Before you attack her, wrap your whacker
3. Don't be silly, protect your willy
4. When in doubt, shroud your spout
5. Don't be a loner, cover your boner
6. You can't go wrong if you shield your dong

7. If you're not going to sack it, go home and whack it

8. If you think she's spunky, cover your monkey

9. If you slip between her thighs, be sure to condomize

10. It will be sweeter if you wrap your peter

11. She won't get sick if you wrap your dick

12. If you go into heat, package your meat

13. While you're undressing venus, dress up your penis

14. When you take off her pants and blouse, slip up your trouser mouse

15. Especially in December, gift wrap your member

16. Never, never deck her with an unwrapped pecker

17. Don't be a fool, vulcanize your tool

18. The right selection will protect your erection

19. Wrap it in foil before checking her oil

20. A crank with armor will never harm her

21. No glove, no love!

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Burning Angel Toys™ 7x Bullet

Spicy4play — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 22:04:00 GMT

Spicy4play.com Topco Burning Angel 7x Bullet

Burning Angel Toys™ 7x Waterproof Bullet is in our store Top 40 for a reason. This is by far one of the best bullets we have tested to date. It's a powerful little bullet guaranteed to help you reach your climax faster. With each level being more powerful than the last, this 7x bullet has 7 different patterns of vibration pulsation and escalation, plus it comes in 2 different colors (Fractured Black and Fractured Pink). The best part is, this powerful bullet is waterproof. So, whether you're relaxing in a bubble bath or you're with that special someone this is the perfect bullet for the job.

If you're a person that has a hard time reaching your climax and you want more bang for your buck... then pair this amazing bullet up with our Liquid V for Women. Liquid V for Women is a maximum strength topical gel that amplifies sexual pleasure for women immediately on contact. It is formulated to help increase clitoral sensitivity for women who want to enhance their personal experiences. It works by producing a warm tingling sensation to the clitoris, enhancing sexual sensations. Women of all ages have noticed added excitement and a drastic difference in their sex lives when using this product.

Do you have questions? Comments? Well feel free to post them below in our comments section and we'll do our best to answer any question you may have. Have a review you want to share, then email them FlutterbyTigress@Spicy4Play.com and we'll post them here, giving you as much or as little credit as you may want and as a way to say Thank You for your review, you will be reimbursed for shipping on your 1st order from Spicy4Play.com. Privacy and Customer Satisfaction are our #1 priorities both here at Tuesdays at Tiffanys and Spicy4play.com

Hello & Welcome

Spicy4play — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 19:10:00 GMT

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This is the official blog of the Spicy4Play & Spicy's Private Parties website.
Spicy4Play.com is an adult novelty superstore. We carry the largest selection (on the web) of romantic gifts, fetish & bondage kits, bachelorette & bridal sets, crotchless panties, sexy lingerie (including plus sizes), leather lingerie and so much more.
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Reasons Why Cookie Dough Is Better Than A Penis

1. It's enjoyable hard or soft.

2. It makes a mess, too --- but it tastes better.

3. It doesn't mind if you take your anger out on it.

4. You always want to swallow.

5. It won't complain if you share it with friends.

6. It's "quick and convenient".

7. You can enjoy it more than once.

8. It comes already protectively wrapped.

9. You can make it as large as you want.

10. If you don't finish it, you can save it for later.

11. It's easier to get the kind you want.

12. You can comparison-shop.

13. You know what the extra weight is from.

14. You can put it away when you've had enough.

15. You know yours has never been eaten before.

16. It won't complain if you chew on it.

17. It comes chocolate flavored.

18. You always know when to get rid of it.

19. You can return it --- satisfaction is guaranteed.

20. It's always ready to go.

21. You won't get arrested if you eat it in public.

22. You don't have to change the sheets if you eat it in bed.

23. It won't wake you up because it's hard.

24. It won't get jealous if you pick up another one.

25. You can tell your friends how much you've eaten without sounding like you're bragging.

26. It is very pliable.

27. It's easy to pick up.

28. It never has an insecurity problem with its size.

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Spicy4play Top List

Spicy4play.com Here it is Our top 10 List!!!

Top 10 Novelty Items:

Top 10 Lingerie Items:

Top 10 Accessories:

Top Selling Enhancement products!

A Beginner’s Guide to Vibrators

Basic Vibrators

Clit Vibes

G-Spot Vibes

Exploration

Toys for Partners

Fun Factory Dinky Digger II

Funny Condom Slogans

Spicy4play.com Funny Jokes

I came across these in my surfing and could not stop laughing... Hope you enjoy them too.

Funny Condom Slogans...

1. Cover your stump before you hump 2. Before you attack her, wrap your whacker 3. Don't be silly, protect your willy 4. When in doubt, shroud your spout 5. Don't be a loner, cover your boner 6. You can't go wrong if you shield your dong

7. If you're not going to sack it, go home and whack it

8. If you think she's spunky, cover your monkey

9. If you slip between her thighs, be sure to condomize

10. It will be sweeter if you wrap your peter

11. She won't get sick if you wrap your dick

12. If you go into heat, package your meat

13. While you're undressing venus, dress up your penis

1. Cover your stump before you hump
2. Before you attack her, wrap your whacker
3. Don't be silly, protect your willy
4. When in doubt, shroud your spout
5. Don't be a loner, cover your boner
6. You can't go wrong if you shield your dong